Went to a gun show yesterday, taking another couple with us. He hasn't shot anything in years, maybe a decade...? She's interested in getting into the AWA group, learning among women, having fun in a safe way. Funny ... seeing my wife and her together, both 5'4" ... Wife browsing over tables, looking for literature ( ? she's a avid reader), and the friend's wife ... looking overwhelmed. We came across a McClellan Saddle... unkept and in desperate need of cleaning.... missing some parts.

Father-In-Law was rummaging through his closet or garage or something, can came across his old Ithaca 20 gauge double barrel shot gun, last week. Seeing and holding that thing, a flood of memories & stories came back to his 88 yearr old mind. He spoke of taking his little girl, now my wife, rabbit hunting - not for sport, but meat for the table, with his beagle, Champ. To purchase Champ, he'd looked for a good hunting dog with his buddy - it was too expensive for either one of them, they went in together and dad took the dog to stay with him. From there, many trips into the tall grass, gun in hand, dog dodging too and fro, looking for rabbits. He'd pop one, Champ had to see the rabbit was 'in hand' or he'd assume it was still ready to skeddadle off again. Rabbits can sit there, real still like, until almost stepped on, and then bolt & bound away, zig-zagging - Champ hot on it's tail. Dad remembers the best parts of hunting - unless I mention the worst parts, like freezing your ass off, windy & cold days ... feeling desperately hungry & wondering what your family was gonna eat that night beside potatoes.

This particular gun show, had 2 of these shot guns, dad hunted with. I shot it once, and couldn't believe the snappy recoil it had for such a little gun, light weight guns can do that. Since he was interesting in 'what is is worth', and like most antique owners, his was in pristine condition, like it was still in the box... Heh, I think he forgot the times he laid it on the wet ground, leaned it against the brick house, or it bounced around in the truck, making tiny dents in the wood stock, leaving scratches in the blueing. All the things that aged the gun and his 88 year old body. If I ever see it, there's gonna be a few more stories, 'Oh yeah, it got loaned out to, and he foolishly laid it down in gravel - scratched the hell out of it! Still it's in excellent condition, check the bore! It's as shiney as new!' ... except for the plastic wad & lead fouling - 'a good cleaning would take that 40 year old fouling right out!', he'd claim. Yeap, a good confession of your lying imagination would clean your soul too! Naturally, a family heirloom is 'priceless' and 'perfect'
It was the same gun, dad handed his daughter, my wife, one day, she'd been begging and begging, big Doe-like Brown Eyes - Disney probably modeled the Bambi cartoon after those pretty brown, irresistable eyes... alas, he relented. Dads love their kids, and little girls, just melt a dad's heart ... Yep, I've gotten suckered into all kinds of 'cat and dog' deals, "I promise, I'll feed it every day, house break it, keep it from chewing the furniture, take it for walks, teach it manners & tricks..." The only one rolling over to play dead - is dad. Well, that dad has many more stories untold, according to my wife, his daughter. Like the time he peppered Champ in the south end of the dog facing north (that's polite for 'ass'), and by golly, that dog still hunted, yelping a bit, with a few pellets in the hindquarters. Naturally, learning this 'Shhh... honey, don't tell mom' story, it's been locked away in her & his memory ... until the timing is ripe - and I ask him about it at the most possible embarrassing moment! My wife, his daughter, says, "You're terrible! But awfully funny..!" Every embarrassing weakness... needs to be stagetically exposed, among friends, sometimes after a beer, or to shift the advantage of a board game... laughter is good for the soul.
With the grace of God, maybe I can play a part in restoring some of the joyful memories in my FIL's heart. With his dementia laden wife, not able to share those decades of memories, enter the former Hippie son-in-law who stole away his little hunting partner to become his wife. Little did anyone realize, we'd grow closer together with age and a throng of kids/grandkids, to have so much in common in love and life. 14 hours apart by car, but meer moments by telephone, it's just about time to give him a call today, share a smile. and let him know, I got everything I need, between the Lord and my lovely wife, his wonderful (former) little hunting buddy.

God has been very good to me! Maybe we can pinch-hit for mom & bring some joy & humor back.