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The choice we make with age

I asked my friend directly, "Why are you mad? What is it you're so angry about?" He ranted and screamed into the phone, about 'what' I cannot remember at all - just venting, like he had done many, many times before. My wife said, these are really toxic people - you should really just walk away. "He's been a good friend, a long time, I couldn't abandon him now, he'll come around again."

A Pastor friend I'd jogged with occasionally, quipped, 'Old age makes you better or bitter, it's a choice we all make.' Well, that sounds so quaint, yeah... probably was mentally rephrasing it to, 'Life makes you better or bitter, it's not a choice, just what's handed to you!' Quite interesting coming from a man who knew trouble, disappointment, discouragement, depression and anger. Far from a happy-go-lucky guy, his feet were firmly planted in reality. He might have thought his words, '...better or bitter, a CHOICE we make', fell on deaf ears at the time.

Instead of stopping there, he had more pearls of wisdom, 'You, are responsible for the lines on your wife's face, whether they become laugh lines or of scorn, depression & anger.' Yeah... without much pause, I glanced at my wife at a distance, wondering, 'heh... I better work on that..!'

Remembering another Pastor's wife, her high school year book picture was a wonderful smile, happiness & joy - her 'fixed expression' decades later, not depression, not anger - but scorn. It probably took more joy than she could muster to turn that frown into a smile. If that boiled down to a 'choice' - she telegraphed, 'I made a BAD choice'! Funny, the Pastor, almost self incriminating, 'Happy wife, happy life' and another favorite of his, 'If momma isn't happy, nobody's happy!' Yeah - probably 'hard pass' on getting life & marriage advice from a man who knows failure - but never overcame it personally. I'll stick with my jogging Pastor, his pleasantly smiling wife, radiated her husband's love and devotion.

Wife said the dryer isn't heating up, things are eventually drying after hours of tumbling, yeah, I'd know about it for a week... just struggling with the lack of energy and endurance. Did my research online last week, everything pointed to the gas valve not opening. A 6'3" guy loathes lying on his side, cold basement floor to work on a very old dryer. She volunteered, 'can I help' - Sure, hold the light.

Just light up the tip of the tools, don't remind me of the wrinkles on the back of my palms... she bends over a little more - now we can see it all. Some dryers are just perfectly made for EASY repair work - these multi-decade old Kenmores (two of them), are absolutely the best of the best. One thing about aging, before you descend to 'the floor level' - it becomes habit, to look around wondering, 'How am I gonna get back up?' It's like Rocket Science - Grab this, brace on that - OK, slide that chair just within reach - GOT IT! Descent is now a GO! We are GO for descent! We've got a successful descent to the floor, no slips, we have Descent! Sigh! (I think she was smiling - but, was it because I got to the floor, or just working on the dryer & pulling the cover off the front?) - no matter, the life lines were still on the plus side of joy...

Changed out the gas valve in minutes, and without a struggle, one small wrench for the little screws, one big step for mankind - with another wrench to remove the gas coupling. cracked over the shut off valve momentarily to blow out any dust ... realizing the importance of a dust trap, which I neglected to install... just a little dust, we're ok. When is a good time to remind my lovely wife, 'I love you' - often! In the middle of a heated discussion, reading a book, opening the door, cooking, troubleshooting dryers - yeah, that's a good time. It kinda keeps the 'love balance on the plus side' - probably helps with the facial joy lines.

Minutes later, it was ready to try... I'd stay on the floor, my wife could restart the dryer. Drum rotating, gas igniter glowing orange, nothing. Again... nada.. ( think I could hear some very soft praying from behind me, teamwork, I like that - if you can't do the job, pray for the guy's hands up to their elbows deep in it! Kinda like Politics, heh?) Like a sudden revelation, or slap to the head, 'Gas Shut OFF - turn the gas ON!' - "Hang on a sec, honey, I forget to turn the gas back on!" At that point, no foot to my backside, no cutting remark - although she did let out a gentle, reassuring, sigh.

Gas shut off back on, and a big, a 'click' followed by a beautiful flame... ( thought I heard a 'thank you Lord' behind me ). Well, I certainly did! God is good! We got a working clothes dryer again! I snapped the bottom cover back on, and began a labored ascent back to the upright position, 'We have liftoff the floor, all feet engaged, we have liftoff!' Before I noticed there she was, standing in front of me, one arm slightly extended and leaning ... in case I needed a helping hand.

My friends often said, 'You are so LUCKY to have her for a wife!' Or, 'you don't realize how LUCKY you are with her'. How do you answer that? Really! Should I laugh as I dance around them, "Haha - Sucker! I got her, and left you with the Bitch! haha!"? Or, maybe I should slap them, "Git right with GOD, you heathen!"? Never really had an answer, other than God has been very good to us.

There was a point, early in our marriage, when our Pastor came over for a visit, we were arguing about something, toilet paper position or squeeze vs roll toothpaste tube. He listened to her, then me a couple of times, and gave us words of divine wisdom, I'll never forget. "You two sound like a couple of teenagers, listen to yourselves, arguing over nothing." Like God just slapped me, square across the chops, he was right. Standing up, "You're right, thank you...", I shook his hand, and he left - yep, it was THAT fast... like within a minute, his coat was on, and he was out the door.

Two things happened, she explained years later, 'I decided to quit trying to change him & let God do it, I'd just pray instead." In my mind, I committed to expressing my love for her, daily. Not in an off-handed way, but in a way I was SURE she hear me and knew it was true - those facial lines would either reassure or condemn me as a liar. Revolutionary effects. Like night and day... bright daylight, like she was smiling so big and bright - even our friends started say, "You are SOOOOO lucky!" Not really, God loves all of us, we're just poor at expressing that love in a thankful spirit. My wife's face & demeanor is like a gauge for me ... well, sometimes it takes a little chocolate to boost it, like dumping a can of HEET into the gas tank to dry it out, or fuel injector cleaner to get the Diesel running smooth again. Many years later, while reading the Bible, this stuck out - I'll never forget it...

Romans 1:21 "Because that, when they knew God, they glorified him not as God, neither were thankful; but became vain in their imaginations, and their foolish heart was darkened." But to really get the importance God puts on a thankful spirit, read the verse in the context - Romans 1:18-32. That's some really awful company, the un-thankful live with. Verse 31 just speaks of a marriage, IMO, "31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful:" - reasons for divorce... Lacking understanding, affection, fidelity, love, mercy. Saying 'I love you' is so simple, yet so powerful. Being thankful and expressing that in love, to your spouse & the Lord - takes a real man or woman, and God... responds to that thankful heart with His blessing,

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Sunday and I'm missing one whole hour!
Daylight Saving, musta ripped me off again!

There's talk about finally stopping daylight saving time, which didn't save anything, just messed with well meaning people and enhanced the bottom line for anyone selling 9volt batteries for smoke detectors!  POTUS Trump, says it's, 50-50 on keeping or abandoing it.  Can't remember changing the time on a clock growing up, maybe my parents sat up half the night, careful to change the clock at 1 or 2 am... while we kids were sleeping.  All I had was a wind up alarm clock with 2 bells on top - and - a wall clock, a Kat Clock... a beige colored Kat clock, with the tail hanging down, swinging back and forth.  You can't imagine, a pre-teen kid, climbing up on a chair or chest, or brother, pulling that thing off the wall, changing the time, and then... struggling to get it back on the nail on the wall. 

Kat Clock

It didn't purr like a kitty, just made this gutteral sound, like a mouse or sparrow was being digested and burped up in 2 second intervals... we somehow managed to sleep, probably swearing to hunt sparrows for Black Fat instead of letting him chase mice.  Every power outage, we'd end up either climing up the wall to reset that Kat clock, or ... if the hour was right, unplug it and try to get it timed just right, one kid at the plug, the other downstairds, watching the house clock, "Ready?  5-4-3-2-1 - plug it in!!!"  It wasn't a precise operation, but, close enough.

The wind up clock pretty much stopped, slowed down, sped up - what a useless piece of metal for us.  This sort of Brass & Sea Green thing sat there, across the room, the only thing we could see at night, because of it's luminious dial.

Living in the country, that was the only thing that made any noise, tick-tock tick-tock when you went to bed, as the night wore on, and the 'bladder alarm clock, insisted, you gotta get up NOW', the sound changed.  There you are, stumbling down the hallway, bleary eyed, knocking into everything, stubbing toes @ 3am, to the bathroom.  Finding your way back, that old Oak Floor in the middle of the night, barefoot - it felt as cold as a cement floor.  Crawling back into bed, after sweeping the cat off your pillow... getting back to sleep, impossible with that wind up torture device!  The bedroom seemed lit-up by it's glowing dial, and it no longer ticked & tocked, but had morphed into a Vincent Price's, 'Pit & the Pendulum' horror movie!  Terrifying to a 10 year old with an active imagination!  You're laying on your side, one eye checking up for a razor sharp, swinging Pendulum!  The windup clock was a necessary evil in the farmhouse, power went off and nobody knew what time it was - the school bus was showing up at 7:15am ... 2 hours for chores, then breakfast, and there's the bus!  "Click-clang click-clang"... better take another look, did I wake up in a Vincent Price dungeon???   Just about the time you're falling asleep from exhaustion, the air is filled with this now ear-splitting ringing - "Heck no, you're now under a WW2 air raid, in a London Subway Tunnel, and your brother is gasping & moaning from a gut wound, "Turn that darn thing off!  Which one of you idiots wound it up again?  It's Sunday, and we've changed the clocks last night!"  mumble-mumble, covers rustling, little feet hustling across the floor to the dresser as it rang - silence.

She's sleeping in, having been up with the owls, chatting with the girls... it's good to have a daughter or two home for a few days.  Gives her a good diversion from the Farm.  We call it PQFarm, because we hatch & raise Ducks.  Heritage breeds, keeping their lines alive, Silver Appleyard, Welsh Harlequin, Buff Opingtons.  Whenever we've gone to the hatcheries for day old chicks, they're bound to throw in a few of those, "Surprise!  We're Pekins!  Lousy egg layers, & we like to EAT a lot - forarging, what's that..?  Not for me!  Just feed me!  Aflack-aflack-aflack!"  One of two Drakes (males) is good, they're likely to do guard duty for the Ducks (hens) who are the egg layers we really wanted.  Big eggs, I mean twice the volume of a medium/large egg, a 2 Duck egg omlette is same as a 3 egg chicken omlette.  Pekins, when they do lay, are even bigger!

Yesterday, the farmer gave the girls the word, start laying ... or else!  2 eggs this morning!  Welsh harlequin size eggs.  It's cold enough, they're not fertile, so clean them up a bit, and into the fridge.  We'll wait till it warms up and everything is in full lay before we start setting eggs in the Incubators.  One of them we bought, it holds180 duck size eggs, the other I built, about 8x that size... but, we've never filled it that full.  Having the capacity is always good.  We've loaded up the small incubator many times, with a mix of Chicken, Turkey, Duck, Bob White Quail & Ring Neck Pheasants.  Those days are over, the kids were pretty involved with the bird operation & selling them at the farmer's market.  Farmer's markets were a 100% loss for me - I wanted to kids to learn how to SELL, it was for their education.  Sometimes, they came home smiling, sometimes a little bumed out, but it was always there to learn from, how to sell & barter.  They'd sell day olds, week olds and hardened off chicks - the latter didn't need any heat lamps... prices went up each week as our input costs rose.  Once the kids starting figuring out the initial pricing, adding in feed & heat lamp costs for older birds - I would just back away, and let them figure it out, occasionally getting a call, "What do you think about this price for ...".   They got better and better at Farmer's Markets, often selling everything they took.

The boys managed to turn the Turkey chicks into Pet's ... they'd follow them accross the yard, while free ranging, begging for easy treats!  One of the boys would be laughing, 20 or more Turkey chicks at his feet, pecking away at his shoes, or anything shiney, to the point of becoming annoying.  He'd sit on the glider of the Front Porch, half a dozen Turkey chicks surrounding him, asleep... "I can't move, dad! I'm covered in Raptors!"  What???  "Raptors have me pinned down!"  A peek out the window, 'Oh, his Turkeys are napping on his lap again.'  The next month, they'd all sell at the Farmer's Market, and there was little doubt, bringing joy to another buy.  "You guys like to hand-tame your birds, we really like that, about your family!" - so did we, a repeat customer.  I hope they managed to serve those birds up for Thanksgiving... Those broad-breasted birds could be well over 50-60 lbs if you'd let them go till Christmas!  36 lbs was our biggest we ever tried to squeeze into our oven, even 20 of us, couldn't finish that bugger off.

Thanks to the neighbor's dogs... we're down to 3 Pekins & 3 Welsh Harlequin Ducks (1 Drake & 2 Ducks, of each), unfortunately, they are near 4 years old, so..... we're going to try and get some new birds, just incase these guys are sterile.  And... I wanna get a tray or two of Bob White Quail eggs to set.  The Fillet Mignon of the Sky, like a Florida Pompono is to fish, Wagyu Beef to cows - so is Bob White Quail to birds.  Most of them will wind up as Owl & Hawk food as we release a bunch of them.  Quail are like little birdie buddies too!  One of the girls would hang around the incubator, opening the door, so they would see her face right after hatching, "Are you my mommie?" - and follow her around like baby kittens.  They'd grow up, loving people.  Hearing them calling in the morning & evenings, or suddenly flush in the tall grassy areas - man-o-man, that's real country living.  It's a reminder for me, God has/had a purpose in everything, even allergies.

The sun is high, warm sunny day.  Ducks are just peacefully floating around the front pond, frockling is over - I bet they'd like so fresh popped corn!  Ya know, as many days & hours spent sitting in a saddle, I can't ever remember dozing off.  At my height, 6'3", with that much weight leverage over a horse's center of balance, knowing shifting my weight around they'd stagger like a drunk - we could both fall over!  Often said to the Students in Riding lessons, "you gotta fall 1000 times before you're and expert" - I might have reached half of that if you rolled all those falls in, as a kid on a pony.  Time to go pop some corn...

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